Elissa Renouf’s Story
Thank you for visiting our website. I would like to share with you my story of the challenges I face every day in the hope it may bring a better understanding of diabetes, explain the help and support you can seek and, above all, make the management of your life that little bit easier.
On the surface, we are a typical Australian family with five beautiful, happy, healthy and well-loved children. Delving further, you will realise that our lives are a little more complicated than others. However, we have never lost our determination to live as normally as possible – even though we must constantly deal with the on-going health issues that have been handed to us.
It’s out of this determination that Diabete-ezy was born. In helping my sons manage their health, I saw a great need for convenient, user friendly products to assist people to better manage diabetes.
I have five beautiful children – four boys and a girl, aged between 24 and 15. I grew up on a 620-hectare farm about 10 minutes outside the small town of Murgon which is about 240km north west of Brisbane, Queensland, Australia . I left high school in Year 11 to start a hairdressing apprenticeship. In 1988, I transferred my apprenticeship to a Brisbane salon, got married at 19 and lived in the city suburbs for the next seven years. My enduring love for the country and animals led my family to purchase a 16 hectare property in Samford, about 30 minutes from Brisbane, where we have lived for the past 19 years. On the property, I breed Belted Galloway Cattle and Suffolk Sheep. I also have a camel, donkey, goat, alpaca, chooks, ducks, geese, swans, pheasants, three dogs and a cat!
In 1993, about six weeks after having my first child, Sam, his father Steven developed Type 1 Diabetes at the age of 22. Even though two of my uncles on my father’s side had Type 1 Diabetes, I didn’t really understand much about the disease. At the time of Steven’s diagnosis, we inquired about the odds of Sam getting Type 1 and the doctors explained that it was only about a five per cent chance.
Steve and I went on to have another two children – Billy born in 1994 and Sunita born in 1996. When Sunita was six-months-old, I developed Graves Disease (overactive thyroid) which is also an auto-immune disease like diabetes, which I treat with tablets which keeps my levels under control. We often wondered whether the children had a risk of getting either one of the diseases but were still told by the specialists that they had only about a five per cent chance.
Charlie Is Diagnosed – 2002
Steve and I had another two children – Charlie, born in 1999, and Freddie, born in 2001. All the children were very happy and healthy until May 2002. Just after Charlie’s third birthday, he asked me to fill a drink bottle with water one night when he was going to bed. First thing the next morning, he asked for it to be filled again. As we had tested the children on Steven’s blood glucose meter every now and then and they were all fine, I was not really alarmed. However, to be sure I asked him if I could test him on his father’s meter but he refused. Not wanting to cause an upset, I decided I would test him that night when he was asleep. When I did, his level was an alarming 21mml. I phoned the hospital and they asked for him to be taken in immediately and by next morning he was started on insulin injections. Lucky for us we had enough knowledge about diabetes to be able to recognise the early signs before Charlie become very ill.
Charlie accepted his daily routine of seven finger prick tests and up to five insulin injections (plus everything that goes with having diabetes) very well. We put this down to the fact that he had always seen his father do the same thing, so it wasn’t as scary as it is for children who have never seen the needles before.
A Double Wammie – 2003
By early January 2003, everything under control with Charlie’s diabetes, but then we noticed Billy – who was 8½-years-old at the time – was also showing signs. I tested him all that day and by afternoon knew that he too had developed Type 1 Diabetes. He accepted this very well as he already understood a lot about diabetes because of Charlie.
Billy was also diagnosed with Coeliac Disease in May, 2003, which means he can’t have any foods that contain gluten e.g. wheat, oats, barley, rye and malt.
The Hat-Trick – 2004
Over the next few months, I began to notice two-year-old Freddie (our youngest child) having mood changes so tested him every now and then. Then in October, 2003, Freddie started showing very early but definite signs of diabetes. This was a particularly difficult time, as Freddie was still producing insulin but it was slowly decreasing. I was immensely frustrated – why couldn’t I stop this from happening?
By March, 2004, Freddie also started on insulin injections – just two months before his third birthday. He, too, accepted his fate very well, probably because he was going to be like his dad and two older brothers. Freddie was then diagnosed with Coeliac Disease in November, 2005.
Something Different – 2006
Late in 2005, Sunita – then aged 9½ years – was playing basketball when she collapsed on the court. After a visit to the doctor, he put it down to a “fainting episode”. In February, 2006, Sunita had another “fainting episode” after swimming. We took her to a neurologist who informed us that there was a slim chance it was Epilepsy and, if so, the seizures would become more frequent and stronger. Within two weeks, she had another seizure – this time she didn’t faint but her face jumped and twitched uncontrollably. I phoned the specialist and he suggested we have an MRI to rule out anything else, before starting her on epilepsy medication.
Following the MRI, we went to visit the specialist. Steven, Sunita and I entered his room and within five minutes our whole world came crashing down. We were told that she had a brain tumour. Here we were worried about putting her on epilepsy medication, and now we are being told that our daughter has a brain tumour. Sunita was in the room at the time, so we had to be very mindful about what questions we asked. They couldn’t tell us much more than it was a hematoma or a low-grade glioma, which has a very broad spectrum. The tumour was in the thalamus (core of the brain responsible for all of her gross motor nerves) so we couldn’t do a biopsy. We just had to wait and see if it was growing and how quickly. It was another three months to the next MRI, and as anyone would imagine this was a very emotionally difficult time.
Over the next 18 months, Sunita had four MRIs, which showed no significant changes. She continues to have MRIs at two-year intervals and, fingers crossed, there has never been any change. If this continues to be the case into the future, the doctors say that it’s possible the tumour is just a birth mark where the cells haven’t formed properly. Sunita had two years on the epilepsy medication and 18 months of having no seizures, so she was allowed to go off the medication. She has now been symptom free for over 7 years. Nonetheless, Sunita will have to monitor the tumour for the rest of her life.
Not Another One
After watching Sam’s blood glucose levels slowly rise over a two-year period, he was formally diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes in September 2009 – two months before his 17th birthday.
I am so proud of the way Sam has accepted this challenge with such confidence and ease.
Things Happen For a Reason
I am determined not to dwell on why so many health misfortunes have been thrust upon our family and I’m quite sure there are many other people who have indeed endured far worse. Things happen for a reason, however difficult it is to understand and accept. Rather, I would prefer to see it as an opportunity to use the experience I have gained to make a difference to other people who are affected by diabetes.
Starting my own business in 2004, I designed and created funky, bright, useful, convenience-based products to help manage diabetes. With so many diabetics in my family, I have acquired a great deal of knowledge of what is needed to make diabetes as convenient and manageable as possible.
Having spoken at conferences in Australia and overseas, including New Zealand and at the International Diabetes Federation World Diabetes Congress in Montreal, Canada, I hope that by telling my story about the positive way we have dealt with diabetes in our family that I may be able to help other families who are enduring diabetes or another illness. Yes, it is hard and certainly an inconvenience, but if my family can remain positive with the challenges we’ve been handed, then there is no reason why other families can’t do the same!
I am empowered by the thought that I may be able to help others. In fact, I believe this also helps me, as the business has been a great distraction, especially when things have started to play on my mind.
As diabetes – Type 1 and (predominantly) Type 2 – affects a huge population, I hope that I can help spread the word that managing diabetes and being positive can have so many benefits.
This is my motto:
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity. An optimist sees an opportunity in every difficulty
Take care and always try to enjoy life, whichever direction it may take you.